Archive for the ‘sexuality’ Category

Are Gay Men The New Androgynes?

Sunday, September 14th, 2008

Author’s Note@26/6/09: This is the original version of this piece. I did tidy it up and lengthen it, but, ever the sentimentalist, I want to preserve the original text. I might publish the longer version later. Perhaps. If I get around to it.

If SBS is only good for one thing, it’s triggering my brain and making me thing about shit. As well as my awesome LJ friends. Love your work, guys. ;)

What started my thoughts was a friend writing about her sexuality, and mentioning that she thinks she’d be better suited as a gay male. Amongst the comments were a couple of other people airing the same view. This combined with my own gender issues got me thinking about why it is that I hear more and more females expressing this view that they’d rather be gay men.

I’m not offering anything but my opinions and musings here on something I keep seeing all over the net. I’m sure others have attempted to explain this phenomenon in much better ways than I plan to, but that’s not what this is about.

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Saturday Afternoon Musings

Saturday, September 13th, 2008

Sometimes I think I’m just repeating the same thoughts over and over again, that I lack anything insightful or interesting to say. I start countless rants and never finish them; the anger’s gone too soon. A sign of my good temperament? Perhaps, though it does leave me wanting.

A lot of things have been on my mind lately. Politics, as always, has been lulzy and awesome. The state election, however, was almost a disappointment. But the fallout has been interesting to watch, before NSW Labor decided to one-up us.

But that’s a rant for another day. If I finish it, of course.

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On Religion and Fundamentalism

Saturday, September 29th, 2007

Yes, I’ve been reading again. Dangerous activity, I know, but I do it all the same. This time, I’ve been reading God Under Howard by Marion Maddox. I’m almost finished and it’s a fascinatingly disturbing read.

Now, whilst I’m not opposed to religion itself per se, I do object to religion being used to manipulate people and attain such power and influence that they can distort our democratic society into hatred and racism.

I will not tolerate a theocracy, no matter which religion is behind it. (more…)

Work, Money, Delusion and Politics

Thursday, July 26th, 2007

I’ve just finished Affluenza by Clive Hamilton and Richard Denniss, and it’s a fascinating read. I recommend you read it. It made me realise what it was I want to aim for in life. Although it’s mostly about Australian society, I still think non-Aussies can garner something from it.

I had a pretty good life growing up. I never went without, my parents haven’t split up, hell, they even job-shared when we were kids so they could spend equal time with us. I went to a private high school, even got to university, and am about to finish a science degree.

To put it in perspective, these things are not universal. Every kid in the world does not get access to schooling. Some kids don’t have parents. A lot of kids are going hungry. I live in a politically stable country that has never had a civil war. I have freedoms a lot of people don’t. I have a damn good life compared to what some have. (more…)

On Rudd, Labor, Howard and Sexuality

Friday, June 22nd, 2007

I’m unashamedly left-wing, I think I always will be. I’m old enough to remember Hawke and Keating before Howard came in. So when I look back on Labor over the Howard years, there’s something missing.

Now, I’m not going to turn this into a ‘what’s wrong with Labor’ piece, because other people have done it far more elegantly and intelligently than I could. And I’m not Paul Keating. XD

No, this is not about that.

It’s more my frustration that Labor makes such an ineffective Opposition. Now, I don’t expect them to oppose everything Howard does. All I expect is a party prepared to make the Government accountable to its citizens, and in my opinion, that hasn’t happened.

Howard has run all over them like he has all over the country. No one’s prepared to keep him in check, and the people keep voting him in!

Alexander Downer is the most ineffective and incompetent ministers in the Government, yet he keeps his job!

It stinks. It really fucking stinks.

Now, I admire Rudd. He seems to (sort of) know what he’s doing. And he’s not offensive in any way shape or form. What worries me is that there’s not much difference between Howard and Rudd. At least Latham had personality! Rudd appears to have a halo constantly shining over his head, as if he’s too fucking good to be true. Too squeaky clean. It bothers me. I don’t buy it.

Now, Rudd was doing fine for most of the year so far, but maybe it’s just been a bad week for him, but he’s not looking as strong as he was. But he’s not down and out yet. This appears to just be a small stumble in the road. Here’s hoping he picks him self up and carries on, and stops making mistakes.

He hasn’t convinced me to vote for him because he’s going to be a decent Prime Minister. At the moment, he’s the lesser of two evils, and the only way to get rid of Howard.

Maybe it’s my own political apathy coming through, but I don’t trust politicians. I’ve long since learnt not to trust in any pre-election promises. They say all these shiny things to make you give them power that they will then use however they like, regardless of what they promised.

Call me skeptical, but that’s how I see Howard’s announcement yesterday of radical plans to help the indigenous people of the Northern Territory. He can make those changes because the NT is not a State, and the Federal Government has jurisdiction over it. That’s how they overturned the ACT’s Bill to legalise civil unions for same-sex couples a couple of years ago.

It disgusted me when they did that. As a bisexual individual of no specific gender, it’s becoming increasingly clear this Government would like to pretend I don’t exist. The blatant discrimination of non-heterosexuals in society would not be tolerated if it were any other minority group society approved of. But society is willing to turn a blind eye to non-heterosexuals and deny them the same rights as heterosexuals with regards to marriage, access to IVF and adoption, as well as financial arrangements and such.

Am I ever going to be allowed to marry the girl I love and have it legally recognised in my own country? Or do I have to take up my British citizenship and marry there? Why the fuck don’t people care about this?

Every day I lose a little more faith in humanity.